Monday, September 17, 2018

Yes, and...

Yes, and...

Yes, I want people to love the bodies they have,
               and I value taking good care of the one we're given.

Yes, I believe in white privilege,
               and I'm weary of the aggression towards Caucasian men and women on account of it.

Yes, I support peaceful protests of kneeling during the national anthem,
               and I wish there was greater sensitivity to the offense some veterans feel during the same.

Yes, I fight for love across gender boundaries and societal norms,
               and I am convinced that a church must be able to uphold differing convictions.

Yes, I want to fill this world with hearts willing to share and give generously,
               and I will resist any entitlement that demands compliance with the ideal.

Yes, we can disagree,
               and we can still find validity in the perspective of our opponent.

Stop believing you must pick one side or the other. We are not confined to the black and white polarity present at every turn on Facebook, in the news, coming from the pulpit and screaming from the streets.

Yes, there are clearly many who have decided that it must be one extreme or the other,
               and far too many others have bought the lie - hook, line and sinker.

There are Black men and women who have decided their lot is settled on account of the horrible mistreatment of their ancestors. There are Black men and women shaming every Caucasian as they fight their way to the top. But there are many who see the systemic flaws, understand the lot which has placed them at a disadvantage and yet make genuine effort to pursue prosperity without accusing anyone on the way.

Yes, this country was founded on the acceptance of division and supremacy,
               and we do not have to live the same legacy of our ancestors - no matter what the skin color.

There are white men and women who are convinced they have suffered more than any Black man or woman; they see no real evidence for white supremacy. There are white men and women now convinced that the only appropriate societal response is to criticize their own race at every turn. And there are others who see the privilege their skin color has granted them, though it may not have been enough to protect them from the hands of their abuser as a child.

Everyone has a story. 

Something happened in each person's life to develop the perspective now being expressed. Ask for the story. Instead of making another accusation, make every effort to heal your relationship to the person in front of you. All the systematic change in the world will never soften a heart. Tender love expressed in a genuine friendship is the only cure for pain of the soul.

Yes, far too many people are seeking vengeance, ready to start a fight with a moment's notice,
                and they, too, have a story.

Your story doesn't excuse your behavior. It doesn't validate your disdain for particular people, groups or situations. But it has undeniably developed your perspective - your worldview.

Own your story. Recognize how the stories of your friends and family have impacted yours and certainly affected how you view the world, but remember that their story is not your own.

You get to choose how your experience moves you. Do not be a victim to this world. Rise above. Expect great things of yourself. Develop your inner strength. And do this fervently so that in the moment when you see how someone else's story has contributed to their weakness, you can share your strength rather than try to take any they may have had left.

Yes, this world is broken, full of evil intent and broken systems,
       
               and regardless of your story, you have the power to evoke change by seeking the perspective of the man you think is your enemy.


"The heartfelt compassion that hastens forgiveness matures 
when we discover where our enemy cries." 
- Brennan Manning

Saturday, February 17, 2018

I Want You as You Are

In church, we often here this phrase "come just as you are." It's the idea that God knows we are broken people, sinful, and he loves us even before we clean up our act. We can come in this broken state; we don't have to get clean before we come to him. Many churches today trumpet the same slogan, pasting it on billboards, in promo videos and in the handouts during a service. 

But the reality? This phrase thrown around in our culture does not reflect the ugly truth of Jesus' heart. The church says so many things that she doesn't truly mean...

"Hate the sin, love the sinner [but from a distance, of course. You don't want to get caught up in that mess!]."

"Let's do life together [when it's convenient. We don't like to get bogged down by negativity. So that really tough stuff? You're better off keeping it to yourself]."

"Of course, I'm not perfect [technically, at least. I'm pretty close though and I'm definitely closer than you]."

"Come just as you are..." Come with the understanding that you cannot stay just as you are. There are standards and although you don't have to meet them today, you will be responsible for those standards in time. You can't stay the same and still be pleasing to us and absolutely not to God. Sure, he will still love you because he loves everyone, but he won't actually enjoy you or want to be around you. He's practically allergic to sin, after all. Only when you start to walk, talk and look like the rest of us cleaned-up church folk will you truly belong.

You see it, don't you? The people saying these phrases somehow miss the rest of the words which are drawn on the canvas of their actions and responses to real people instead of the nice thoughts drummed up in a Bible study. And we feel the truth - the obligation, the condition - and it sure as hell isn't appealing to anyone experiencing real life.

For years, I knew in my head that this particular phrase didn't match what the church functionally practices but it wasn't until recently that I experienced what I am convinced is the heart of Jesus. 

Jesus doesn't simply say "come" as you are, he feels a genuine, heart-string-plucking desire for you as you are. He wants you as you are. 

This isn't to say that he is sadistic. In an isolated sense, he doesn't love what is negative, harmful or destructive. But he desires you even in the midst of that. And he will continue to desire you even if those harmful things never leave you. Of course he will be excited when the time comes that you put those things aside, but he will never rush you the way the church does. His purpose and joy is in loving you. In time, that love will more than likely shape you and give you the confidence and courage to make changes in your life. But it is not an expectation. It would be an effect.

Do you see that very tight line we walk? I'm sure many people would read this and say "you're saying the same thing." But I urge you to consider the difference. People can read heart attitudes far better than words. Two people could say the exact same thing and it could be received incredibly differently depending on how the receiver hears the heart attitude of the speaker. 

I heard it well said that "words are a weak instrument of love." So often we are confused when we say the right things and yet people don't respond to them. You know why? Because they see that our heart isn't in the words coming out of our mouth. How we live will sound much louder than any microphone used to communicate our appealing one-liners.

Further than that, we have to understand that love is not simply an action, but a genuine, powerful emotion that drives people to act illogically. Remember that many church people over the years have said that following Jesus isn't logical in the way of man. The way of man in our era today is to pursue logic and intellect. To do what is right. To do what is most advantageous. To do what causes the least pain.

Love born of the mind is not true love at all. It is the love that comes from the depths of your soul - even your bowels - that causes the tingles and drives the greatest yearning. That is real, emotional love that comes from the heart. 

And that is the love that compelled Jesus to go to the cross. I cannot believe that in the Garden to Gethsemane the night he was betrayed, Jesus thought, "I will choose to love these people who have hurt me and are coming to take my life. It hurts, but I know this will please my Father and so I will choose love in spite of my anger and hurt for the way they are treating me."

No. I hear a man who says instead, "my heart so yearns for these people. I know they have hurt me and desire to kill me, but they have captured my heart and I can't stand the thought of losing them. I love them and I will suffer as they have decided but, oh, how I long for them to see and feel the love that I have for them! Father, forgive them - they are blind and do not recognize the harm of what they're doing. I love them - I yearn for them - I want them. I want them for who they are and I desire them to be free from the chains in which they have trapped themselves."

Do you see? Our sin is not repulsive to God. He simply recognizes the way that it harms us when we allow ourselves to remain in it. But sin - that terribly misunderstood word - has NOTHING to do with God's love for us. The church has a hard time grasping that truth. The church will expect you to change, almost as though it is your transaction for receiving God's love. But remember that the church is not Jesus. The church is his bride. And just as he loves you and wants you as you are, he yearns for his flawed bride in the very same way. Remember that no-strings attached love Jesus feels for you is the same love he feels for the "cleaned-up" church folk. He loves you, me and her with a desire that recognizes the harm we cause to ourselves and others, but he still wants us. Just as we are. And he will continue to want us, even if we never change. But he does desire that we change - for our sake, not for his. 

I am a broken person and I cannot say that I want all of you as you are. I will leave that business of loving everyone to Jesus since he seems to be pretty good at it. But I have felt that love for a number of people in my life. I have had painful desires for the people who have hurt me the most. I recently felt this same love for a new acquaintance whose lifestyle I simply do not appreciate. Oh, but that love that pulls from my gut up into my throat, that is present regardless of it all. And that is a representation of the real love Jesus has for us. I may not want you as you are, but Jesus does. And I want my heart to be changed to want all of you as you are, not simply the few whom I do. 

As for the words, I will only speak them when my heart is in line. To many of you, I want to want you as you are, but I truthfully do not. I say this from my head.

To a handful of you, I genuinely want you as you are. I hate the idea of separation from you and my desire for you is greater than even the greatest harm or negativity I have experienced. When I say I want you as you are, I say this from the depths of my heart.


Knowing Love.
Feeling Love.
Always in Love.

Sunday, March 12, 2017

Connecting the Dots

Let me introduce you to my 18-year-old self. I was intelligent, witty and a quick thinker. I had been raised to do the right thing in every situation and I would have told you I accomplished that most of the time. When many of my peers were struggling to decide what was right or wrong, I'd already had my mind made up and a formulated debate in my mind waiting for the moment to convince anyone who asked my opinion.

This mindset translated into my faith as well. I thought loving Jesus was all about obeying his commands - doing the right thing - at any cost. In my early twenties, I asked God to show me more of his heart and desires which led me to receiving a lot of words challenging me to do some pretty outlandish things. After a year of following God's commands, I was burned out. Every time I obeyed I felt like I was beaten down further than I could have imagined before, but the bruises just kept coming. 

In the years that followed, I started asking God "why" like so many others who've hit rock bottom. How could he tell me to do all these things and then not reward me for my obedience? Had he really told me to them? Did I hear him right? The healing process has been a long one, but I'm recuperating. Recently, I had the strength to ask God those questions again about what is in his heart.

His response came in the form of another command, so to speak. Last week I followed God's prompting, confident that he was going to do something. But nothing tangible came from my obedience. The amazing thing? This time I wasn't discouraged. I was still confident that God was doing something, it simply may not have been what I thought it was at first glance. As I was praying over this situation today, God showed me this beautiful image of a Connect the Dots

As you're following the numbers, you start to get an idea of what the picture will be. I for one have been guilty of missing a dot because all of a sudden one of the numbers jetted out to the corner of the page from the center cluster; it simply took me off guard because it didn't match what I thought the picture was going to be. All in a split second, I realized that obeying God is like connecting the dots. 

When God tells us what is in line with his heart, we need to do only that thing. We should not assume even two more logical steps down that path because the number 29 may not be near 28 and 30. God is asking us to connect one dot at a time, trusting that if we follow the numbers, the picture will look as it should in the end. I want to connect the dots. And I want God to keep giving me the extravagant puzzles that have unexpected dots. But even more, I want to trust him as I connect the dots, free to let go of the path I envisioned I was taking.


Connecting the Dots of His Love.
Always in Love.





Friday, March 3, 2017

My Jesus Misses Your Jesus

Have you ever been in a situation where you felt a tension between you and a friend? A co-worker? A spouse? I know it's a rare thing, but I hear it has happened. Reconciliation has been on my mind a lot recently and tonight I had this insightful image that I believe reveals an incredible truth about unity in the Body of Jesus Christ.

I believe every man and woman in love with Jesus carries His presence within him/her. Jesus is accustomed to experiencing perfect and beautiful unity with the Holy Spirit who lives inside of us. In a sense, he has divided himself among his people and he desires nothing more than to enjoy that unity he created in the beginning. He likes us, so he wants to take us on the adventure of such an incredible experience.

But life is messy. She told me she didn't have room for me in the car, so I refuse to invite her on my next excursion. He said he'd have my back but he didn't even show the night I needed him most. She betrayed my trust and I will never speak to her openly again. It breaks my heart, but this is life, even among those of us who are supposed to intimately know the deepest love to ever exist.

If you truly know that love, I believe this aches your heart, too. Have you ever paused to consider why? Inside of you is Jesus, who desires to be united to himself. The moment you turn away your brother, the Jesus in you aches at the loss of himself in your brother. The adventure has been brought to a sudden halt and it breaks his heart for himself and for both of you. He wanted you to enjoy what was before you!

Jesus loved us so much he gave up the right to his own life on our behalf. 

My heart is passionate for unity among the Bride of Christ. I have had this in my heart for many years but it has continued to shape in new light of my own experiences and the pain I see within the Bride. 

Recently, I was pondering different facets of conflict and how to pursue unity in various situations. Of course we all know that when we hurt someone we need to apologize. But what about the moment when you recognize you've wronged someone against whom you filed a restraining order? What of the once-friend who told you to stay out of his life? What about the ex-boyfriend you hurt years ago, who is now married with children? How do we navigate pursuing unity in these situations? 

Because of my own passion for the issue, I often feel that my heart aches stronger than most when there is disunity. In my pondering of a disunity between me and a brother, I asked Jesus how my heart could be wrenched from hurting my brother so much more than his even stings from the hurt I caused him? 

In that moment, Jesus answered my question: "Because I, in you, long so deeply for myself in your brother. You asked to know my heart, and this is it."

I am a near expert at asking those dangerous questions. You know, like the time you ask God for patience and then he gives you one thousand opportunities to practice in a 24-hour period. My dangerous question is often asking God to give me his heart in different situations.

Think about this. If Jesus has made his dwelling in you and in me, but we refuse to talk to one another on account of some offense, Jesus is no longer in unity with himself. The Jesus in me misses - aches for - the Jesus in you. I know life isn't so simple as to live in joyful harmony with anyone you've ever hurt or who has hurt you. But I definitely live with high hopes and I want to do all I can to unite my Jesus with your Jesus.

My prayer is that you want that, too, so we can enjoy the adventure of living in the love Jesus has for himself.


Seeking Love.
Pondering Love.
Always in Love.
  

Sunday, February 19, 2017

Heavy

There's this incredible lyricist named Derek Webb. I appreciate him deeply but he isn't for everyone. He challenges traditional thoughts and he writes in raw truth that may be considered offensive to sensitive ears. Truthfully, had I read his lyrics a year before my ears first heard the beautiful sounds and provoking words coming through my Pandora station, I would have shut my computer off faster than you can say "sinner." It was 2011 when I first heard his song "Wedding Dress" - still my favorite of his, lyrically speaking - and I've only continued to grow in appreciation of his lyrical genius.

If you are open to being challenged and provoked in the way of a whip coming through a temple, look him up and soak in the words that the Lord has placed on this man's heart. 

Tonight, I found myself looking up his albums online with the intention of buying some, but not all, of his music (I have a history of spending far more money on music than I can currently justify as reasonable). My desire is to buy every one of his albums, but I'm trying to be financially responsible! I am grateful for this era of Spotify and Pandora, but I still like a good ole' fashioned CD. 

As I researched, I found far more than I expected to read this evening. I found articles demeaning this man's work, labeling him, as religious people are so fond of doing. I found blogs written in speculation of what some of his lyrics mean. And then I found an interview in which Webb was asked about his series of songs "Lover" in particular. Something he said struck me:

     "At the time, I was leaning very heavily into abstract language and I didn't know exactly what it was about." (Interview with Hannah Goodwyn of CBN Entertainment)

You see, for as long as I can remember, I have struggled with the seeming lack of "artsy" within me. My dad and both of his sisters studied graphic design - his sisters are both active designers. My mom is an English teacher by trade - she wrote poetry and even had some published! I, on the other hand, have always excelled at math and science. I studied biomedical engineering most of my undergrad education. So often you hear of artistic kids that struggle to fit within their parent's expectation of life pursuits. This brain child experienced just the opposite; I was considered to have wasted my time studying while my little sister was praised for drawing a turkey on the carpet. With markers (you think I'm kidding, my there is photographic evidence).

I think that's a part of why I've always longed for a touch of artistic creativity. Don't get me wrong. I do consider myself creative, but not with a canvas and paintbrush. I'm creative like MacGyver; give me a problem that needs solved functionally and you will be surprised at the inventive contraption I devise. But when I go to an art show, I lack connection with understanding what's before me. I so wish I could look at a piece and express what it makes me feel. Instead, I begin analyzing - using my mind - to determine what I see and what logical thoughts might be associated with the present elements. My thoughts are often fact-based. I want to know what the artist felt when she was drawing, what she wanted me to see, not spend time trying to figure out how I feel.

When I listen to a song, I want to understand the lyrics.

Tonight, I recognized a beauty in that Derek Webb, as the artist, didn't even know what the words meant that he had put to song over the last many years. Not until they had all been penned and produced did he discover the meaning behind his own lyrics. How I admire those who have learned to embrace such thinking! Feeling? I want to know every allegory present in his song "Heavy." I want to understand what it means to him. But that has never been the purpose. Instead, I should seek to gather the emotion he expresses while preforming the song. And that, I can grasp. This man has wrestled through much and how many things could he say have been "placed so high on the shelf"?

For the first time, I am starting to grasp the beauty of the unknown in art.


Seeking Love.
Pondering Love.
Always in Love.

Wednesday, March 23, 2016

La misión

I mentioned before that I went on a "mission" trip, not a mission trip to Nicaragua. To explain every detail of my reasoning would take far too long. After all, it has included 7 years of intentional consideration and the ground work was laid when I was born into my family. My parents were considered missionaries to at-risk urban kids and fundraising a salary was the norm for the first 10 years of my life. Like I said, that is another story for another time. 

What is a mission trip? What is a missionary? This word, "mission" is used to described someone who moves to another country in an effort to share the Gospel with a people who have never heard the message of Jesus Christ. It is used to describe a high school youth group traveling to a big city to complete some work projects. It is used to describe a team that journeys to serve at an orphanage for a week. It is used to describe a team that provides medical and dental care that would be otherwise unavailable or impossible to afford. What is a mission trip?

Although my mind is swarming with thoughts about the subject, I haven't arrived at a definition quite yet. The only thing of which I am certain is that I don't like applying this one ambiguous word to so many different situations and experiences. Rather than tell you I went on a mission trip, which may have set just as well in many of your minds, let me tell you what I did and why I went to Nicaragua. 

I didn't go to Nicaragua because the Lord pressed it on my heart. I didn't go because I felt overwhelmed with the need for the people of the country to know the Gospel. I didn't go because I had a heart for these people to receive medical and dental care that is beyond their means. I went for me.

Similar to the joy I find in Spanish, I have been interested in medicine and the human body since I was very young. Why? I couldn't tell you - I only know that such is the case. This trip would be combining two of my greatest interests! Even more, my heart breaks when I consider the gap between the wealth in America and the poverty of most other countries in the world but I have never seen it with my own eyes. I wanted to experience first hand what that kind of poverty looks like. Not the kind of poverty where the government can provide my staple needs if I don't make enough money, but the poverty that leaves me with absolutely nothing. Whether I will be living as an American for only a few more years or the rest of my life, I never want to take my privilege for granted. 

Finally, I went because I couldn't go in good conscience. I learned many years ago that there are very rare situations in which I have any place to judge what is good, right and wrong without living the experience myself. I have struggled for years with understanding the best way to steward our resources as Americans. I often wonder, could we be doing something better? Is it really worth bringing in American doctors when we could send the money and hire natives for less money (If you're interested in a perspective on the roles of natives and foreigners in "missions", consider reading Revolution in World Missions by K.P. Yohannan)? I spent about $1,000 on airfare alone. To hire a native doctor to work with our clinic for 4 days cost $350. Do the math on that. So I decided to live the experience before developing such a formative opinion. 

All of my motivation for going on this trip was selfish. Sure, we can stretch the term to say that I was on a mission, but to equate my trip with the men and women who have laid down their lives for the sake of sharing the love of Jesus Christ is preposterous to me. I went to Nicaragua for a cultural experience.

Please do not hear me say that this was the heart and motivation of all my team members. I am sharing about me and myself alone. 

Let me step aside for just a moment to clarify one thing: We absolutely CANNOT create a blanket statement to say that "mission" trips must be accomplished with the greatest investment in stewardship. As an individual, it is your responsibility to be obedient to Jesus Christ. If He calls you to do something that does not appear to be a good stewardship of money and resources, obey. If you have concerns about the stewardship someone else is or is not displaying, open the conversation if you can do so in love and care for his/her heart. But remember that the Holy Spirit does not press the same convictions on us all. For if He did, we could never reach all the different people of many different lifestyles in our world. You alone are responsible to Jesus Christ for your conscience and acts of obedience. It was Jesus who defended His daughter's use of an expensive perfume for no other purpose than to pour it out on His feet (Matthew 26:6-13).

I told God I wanted to go. He knows my heart. I wasn't deceitful about it, I laid it all in front of Him. I was going for selfish reasons and I asked Him to tell me "no" if it would not be good for me to go. I prayed for a week seeking the Lord. He did not tell me "yes," but neither did He say "no." It's as though this time, God was showing His love for me. Not focused on the people I would be serving, but tenderly saying "Jessica, I know how you long for Latin America. It was I who let that grow in you years ago and because I love you, it brings me such joy to see you delight in this aspect of who you are - who I have made you to be. Enjoy this beautiful blessing from me and be reminded that I love you and want joy for you."

Manna del Cielo

The week leading up to the Nicaragua trip had been crazy. I’d not yet gone to bed before sunrise the day I began my travels! As I mentioned before, the stress never hit. And although I wasn't overly excited about the adventure ahead, I had a simple peace on Friday as I made my way to meet Fern before driving to Omaha. Her lovely sister blessed us with a bed to sleep on, delicious snacks and a fun international gathering the night before our flight! My heart was full and I was soaking it in as much as I could before what I anticipated to be a very heart wrenching trip. 

Saturday morning, we headed for the airport and the one thing I remember from that short jaunt was Fern's comment: "I feel like I'm on my way to a family reunion!" It wasn't too long before we entered the airport lobby and noticed a sea of green t-shirts. Immediately, Fern's face lit as she embraced one foreign face after another. It was wonderful to see her joy, but I was still skeptical. 

The first face I met had the name Micah. He told me he liked my backpack, and that brought a smile to my face. I'd had to borrow one from my dad because Fern put the fear of lost luggage into me - I packed all my necessities on my carry-on backpack! Turns out Micah had the same one, it just looked a little less...plump ;)

On my way to check my suitcase, I met the next couple of memorable faces. They were lovely-looking young ladies with an extra hop in their step. High schoolers, I decided. Their elation would have been contagious were it not for my sober expectation that this would be a hard week ahead of me. "Aren't you just so excited?" one of them asked exuberantly after learning that it was my first time on the trip. These young girls didn't need to hear all of my sobering thoughts. Instead I shared the one thing which I looked forward to in the week to come. "I am really looking forward to using my Spanish with native speakers."

Sarah and Mallory, the names I'd decided to remember, all but leaped into the air upon learning that I speak Spanish! They said they couldn't wait to learn a lot from me that week, and I immediately felt nervous of being unable to meet their expectations. "I am proficient " I explained to them, "but certainly not fluent." The conversation faded into the mix of the stories and exchanges between the many who were reuniting since their last trip of the same. 

We flew from Omaha to Houston where we had a 6 hour layover. Fern and I, being raised by rather resourceful parents, packed our own meals for the day to avoid the overpriced food of the airport. I had brought some bananas which we enjoyed with our lunch and not too long after, a dark woman holding a young girl that couldn't have been one year old motioned to us asking for a banana for her small child. I was surprised by the direct gesture, but was glad to share my overabundance of ripe bananas that needed used before leaving the country!

Fern and I continued to admire the small child as the hours passed, smiling at mom, but maintaining a respectful distance. It wasn't until about 4 in the afternoon that the poor sweetheart became unappeasable, drawing the attention of many in the airport. I had another banana and decided it was time to make the offer. The mother welcomed the food for her daughter and proceeded to explain that the poor duo had been at the airport since 5:00 that morning and their next flight didn't leave until 8:00 PM. I continued conversing with the mother and learned one of the most beautiful stories of choosing a child's name. 

Manna. Pronounced just like the bread which was provided to the Israelites for 40 years while they were in the dessert (Exodus 16). This beautiful woman had desired to be a mother but been unable to conceive for 5 years before this precious little girl was born. She was to her mother like the Manna for the Israelites – an awaited blessing from the Lord. I enjoyed my time spent with this precious child and her mother, but it soon came time to board the plane for Managua.

On the flight, I was privileged to sit across the aisle from one of our team physicians, Tim. We chatted for a while getting to know one another and it was in that conversation that I shared about this most irritating problem I have of becoming faint at the sight of blood. The one place I would need to steer clear of during the week was the dental clinic – all they do is pull teeth all day. Although the conversation was relatively short, it was rather powerful. Tim had shared with me that he had worked with a nurse who had the same problem when she started – but she got over it.

For years, I’ve thought of what a satisfaction it might be to study medicine. And for years, I never seriously considered medical school because I simply can’t handle blood. But Tim had a way of eliminating that argument and in such a brief moment, I was confronted with an underlying truth I’d managed to ignore for years: my greatest fear in attending medical school is graduating. Graduation, which then leads to becoming a doctor and translates to the responsibility of holding lives in my hands.

I fear failure.
      “There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts our fear…” – 1 John 4:18

Day one, and I was already reconsidering my life plan. There are several other factors here and I’m not applying to med school ASAP, but I sure had a lot on my mind for the next 2.5 hours on that flight. Stewardship is very important to me and I need to consider whether I am stewarding my strengths, gifts and talents as well as I try to steward my monetary possessions.

My emotions could not have been more grateful for our landing in Managua – finally something to stop all of this introspective thinking! As I got off the plane, I could smell Latin America – it reminded me of Chile 3 years before – and I felt like I was home in this land which I’d never visited. I had a few chuckles before actually leaving the airport:

*Fern almost accidentally smuggled an American apple into Nicaragua.

*The lady scanning bags spoke only one word of English, “check.” Of course that meant I needed to have my suitcase hand-inspected! What else could she have meant? It’s the white face – it practically screams “No Hahbloh es-pan-ole.”

*The aduana hand-checked my suitcase! Do you remember me saying that I only put a few things in there? I had blankets, sheets, eye glasses and a sweatshirt. And they needed to inspect my bag. Never mind the young gentleman behind me who packed 3 scissors!

After verifying that my sheets were no threat to Nicaragua, I proceeded outside where we waited for our bus. What a joy it was to hear Spanish around me! My first true sense of feeling at home came upon listening to a couple of the young’uns asking a Nicaraguan with us if he was with our organization. “I speak little English,” he responded. These dear ones proceeded to do what any considerate person would have done in the States: ask slower. Unfortunately, the poor lad still only knew as many words of English as he did the first time they asked the question. In order to bridge the communication gap, I posed the questions again, but this time in Spanish. And as those words left my mouth, I could feel my heart come to life. There is something different about speaking Spanish on native soil rather than with my feet planted on American ground. It was a 45-minute bus ride before we reached the mission house where we were staying for the night. We arrived near 11:00 PM to a warm meal cooked by dear Nicaraguan women before showering and heading to bed for the night.

I loved looking out the windows and seeing Managua in all of its raw and glorious splendor as we drove to the mission house that night. Many people – many Americans – would look upon the city and be distracted by how dirty it is and seemingly unkempt. And while I can share in the sentiment to a degree, it simply feels like Latin America to me. It is that atmosphere that causes my heart to feel content and grateful for the cultures the Lord has spread across this earth.


I didn’t recognize it right in that moment, but I, too, was waiting for manna. To this point in my life, God has given me only small doses of immersion in the Spanish language and Latin American culture. It’s as though He never gives me an abundance, but neither does He let me go too long without tasting the sweet language on my tongue. My heart was ready for another serving of Latin America and I was about to wake up to another morning of manna on the ground.